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Baptism Preparation – Lesson 2

The Grace of Freedom & Community of Faith

Catholics sometimes focus only on Baptism as freeing the child from original sin. Yet God is at work in the sacrament to fill the child with grace as he/she enters into the community of believers and becomes a living member of Christ’s Body, the Church. That momentous step for the child is also a challenge for the parents and godparents.

 

Original Sin in Context

The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches that Original Sin is “an essential truth of the faith” (#388), yet it is not a truth which can or should be understood in isolation, apart from other essential truths. The doctrine of Original Sin is not simply a “divine threat,” a way to scare us into baptizing babies.

When I was a senior in high school I had a brilliant physics teacher. I remember the day he explained vacuum. On a platform, the priest had set up a bell jar with a valve in the top, connected to a pump. After pumping the air out of the jar, Father Brian demonstrated how “nature abhors a vacuum” by allowing smoke and other colored gases and particles to be sucked into the jar through the valve.

He explained how this principle functions in ordinary things around the house, for example, how a vacuum cleaner sucks up dirt by establishing a partial vacuum. After a while I found myself thinking and talking as though a vacuum were a thing in itself. But a vacuum is not something; it is actually the absence of something.

Original Sin is like that: It is the absence of something. The theology of Original Sin was developed as a way to speak about our need for salvation in Christ Jesus. Like the vacuum, Original Sin can best be understood “not by looking at what it is” but by looking at what it is the absence of, or the need for. As the Catechism explains, “The doctrine of Original Sin is, so to speak, the ‘reverse side’ of the Good News that Jesus is the Savior of all” (#389).

Just as you “take away” the vacuum in the bell jar by filling the jar with air, so Original Sin is removed when the per- son is filled with the Holy Spirit, the saving love and grace of Christ. “We must therefore approach the question of the origin of evil by fixing the eyes of our faith on him who alone is its conqueror” (Catechism, #385). I fear that many Catholics have tried to understand Original Sin apart from understanding grace. “We must know Christ as the source of grace in order to know Adam as the source of sin” (#388).

Consequently when we speak of infant Baptism and Original Sin it is important to remember that Catholics baptize infants not primarily for what Baptism takes away but for what it gives! After all, the Church baptized infants long before St. Augustine helped develop the doctrine of Original Sin at the turn of the fifth century. When parents look into the smiling face of their newborn and feel the love they have for it, they know deep in their hearts that God loves this innocent child and has created it for eternal happiness.

God’s love is a mystery, a love not easily figured out. There is an ancient axiom: ‘The way we pray reveals what we believe.” Listen carefully in the following prayer from the funeral rite to what the Church is teaching us about God’s regard for children who have not been baptized:

“O God, you are our final home. We commend to you (Name), our child. Trusting in your mercy and in your all-embracing love, we pray that you give him/her happiness forever.”

(Order of Christian Funerals, #282)

When we think of infant Baptism our attention is usually on what the infant receives. But have you ever thought of what the infant gives to you and to the parish? Infants and children can give us special insights into the nature of God.

At least five times in the Gospels, Jesus tells us that we must become “children.” Recall the incident in Luke’s Gospel when people were bringing infants to Jesus over the disciples’ objections. Jesus tells the disciples, “Let the children come to me and do not prevent them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these … Whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it” (18:15-17).

Reading: Thomas Richstatter’s essay Infant Baptism and from The Rite of Baptism, “The Baptismal Promises” that you will be asked to make for your child and renew for yourself.

Presider: Let us pray, dear brothers and sisters, that the Lord God Almighty may bestow new life on this child by water and the Holy Spirit.

Father, you give us grace through sacramental signs, which tell us of the wonders of your unseen power. In baptism we use your gift of water, which you have made a rich symbol of the grace you give us in this sacrament. At the very dawn of creation your Spirit breathed on the waters, making them the wellspring of all holiness. The waters of the great flood you made a sign of the waters of baptism, that make an end of sin and a new beginning of goodness.

Through the waters of the Red Sea you led Israel out of slavery, to be an image of God’s holy people, set free from sin by baptism. In the waters of the Jordan your Son was baptized by John and anointed with the Spirit. Your Son willed that water and blood should flow from his side as he hung upon the cross.

After his resurrection he told his disciples: “Go out and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.” Father, look now with love upon your Church, and unseal for her the fountain of baptism. By the power of the Spirit give to the water of this font the grace of your Son. You created man in your own likeness: cleanse him from sin in a new birth to innocence by water and the Spirit.

We ask you, Father, with your Son to send the Holy Spirit upon the water of this font. May all who are buried with Christ in the death of baptism rise also with him to newness of life. We ask this through Christ our Lord.

All: Amen.

Reflection

  • The rite asks, “Do you reject sin?”
  • What emptiness in your life have you tried to fill up in inappropriate ways?
  • What new sense of freedom have you discovered in your faith?
  • How is the process of becoming a parent challenging you to growth, perhaps in unexpected ways?
  • Since role models lead more by example, what do you and your partner most want to model for your child in your relationship with each other?
  • What are the qualities of the godparents that you have chosen which will help them be role models for your child?
  • How do you hope that your faith community will help you in raising this child?
  • How do you want God to help in raising this child?

 

Sharing

After you and your partner have each had time alone to read and reflect, arrange a quiet time together to share and reflect with each other on these questions.

Include your older children in the conversation as appropriate.

 

Prayer

To believe in someone is to trust in them. Join hands with your partner, and address each member of the Trinity in turn with words of trust and blessing for yourselves, your family, and your new child.

For example, “Father/Jesus/ Holy Spirit, I trust that you will …”

 

Activity

With your partner write down the names of members of your family and of the parish community whom you will want to support you in raising your child in the faith.

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